So what you are saying is that it is acceptable practice for a team to bid on his own player to encourage other managers to raise their bids?
I accept what you are saying about choice, but if you was going to get X player for X Amount, then it cannot be right that you had to make the choice of spending Y on that player to get him through insider bidding, because u wanted him for your team.
What you are encouraging in not ethical and is cheating, providing encouragement to spend more money than you should need to for a player because if we all want to , we can just big on top and exploit the nature of the transfer market.
Every player has a true market value, which varies on many different considerations at different times of a season, one of those variables should not be the owner of that player pushing the price up, actively, to leave you wish no choice but to offer more for that player than you should have in a fair situation.
As for people who may have changed their mind, well, i think thats just tough, we all know once we place a player on the market, that is it, people should be sure of their choices when placing players on the transfer market.
I do take on board what you say about choices to stop bidding, and I get that as an argument in the opposite of what I am saying, however, it does not explain or make it ok. The simple fact is that you would not have paid the Y amount for that player, weather you decided to spend that money or not, it is a false economy and in my view a form of cheating and exploiting the nature of the market by hiking prices
Your comment about spirit of the game is abit hard to understand, you place a player on the market for the price you want, either lower to encourage many bids, or at the price you want for him, I do not believe the Transfer market is set up as you say for a player parting with their player, unless they are happy, this happens all the time and is the risk we take, all of us when making that choice.