well it happens in the nba too,
if you really want a player so bad then you really have to get him! remember peja getting a huge offer from new orleans :D
dont feel bad or guilty just because your the first bb team to offer stakes that high! it happens! if i was that player and was shown someone really wants me either ill be dumb to take it and not play hard ( surely a lot of players are like that ) or simply give my best
i have nothing against you!