If I was a lady (which I'm not) I'd be reeeeeaallllly careful here. I get the feeling that some BBers could make pretty scary stalkers. If we have the time to endlessly debate the ethical consequences of mutual TIEs, then we probably have the pathology that could make for some creepy stuff. I myself would question the mental health of some the posters here...
Don't ask what sort of Chunks they are, you probably don't want to know. Blowing Chunks since Season 4!