Baseball - Baseball Mogul is good for simple folks. OOTP is the overkill fans dream. my favorite console sim is MLB front office manager.
Hockey - I liked FHL and STHL sim leagues, but nobody runs a fair one, and i've much given up on the online sim management games there.
Basketball - Mostly this, i dont find the others as well presented.
"Soccer" football - FM2011 is my game of choice, though the whole series could easily be there.
NFL football - none, i haven't found one yet that actually does it justice.